Four books to change your life.

Which book should you read first?

If you keep attracting the wrong people or feel stuck dating, start with Sunscreen Love. It walks through the four phases every relationship moves through — physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual — and shows you how to tell which phase you are actually in before you make big decisions.

If one person in your life leaves you exhausted after every conversation, read Emotional Vampires. It shows you how to recognize the draining patterns and find practical ways of protecting your energy without burning the relationship down.

If the harshest voice you hear is your own, read Never Feel Unloved Again. It is a plain-spoken guide to building self-worth that does not depend on someone else approving of you first.

If you want the sharpest, funniest of the four, read When Botox Meets Bezos — what happens when massive wealth meets low self-esteem and narcissism, and how to build the kind of self-worth money cannot buy.

All four are available on Amazon in paperback and Kindle. Still not sure? The free two-minute quiz below will point you to the right one.